☞ Frequently Asked Questions
Location
I am located in New York City and take incall and outcall appointments in Manhattan and Brooklyn. Incall appointments take place in upscale hotels and dungeons for an additional fee. I will not do outcalls to private residences for new clients.
I frequently tour the east coast. I recommend subscribing to my newsletter to receive the most up to date info on my whereabouts.
Want me to come to your city? I’m available for travel by train and plane. See my travel minimums here.
Rates
Find my rates here.
Availability
I generally offer dates Monday-Sunday between the hours of 10am-midnight.
Booking a week in advance is recommend as I rarely have last minute availability.
Screening
I require all new friends to undergo light screening to ensure my safety. I will keep your information completely confidential. You have two options for screening:
Options 1: Work verification (such as completed LinkedIn profile or feature on company website) AND a selfie with your government-issued photo ID
Option 2: Two positive references from providers you have seen in the past year
Deposit & Cancellation Policy
Everything you need to know can be found here.
Payment
I accept deposits through CashApp, Venmo, cryptocurrency, and select gift cards. The remainder of the balance must be paid in cash at the start of our date.
If you are new to cryptocurrency, I recommend using this thoughtful guide to get up to speed.
I do not accept payments through Paypal or Zelle.
Etiquette
If we’re meeting in private, please have the envelope with the remaining balance displayed in plain view. If in public, tucking the envelope in a book, card, or gift bag is an elegant way to discreetly give it to me at the start of the date.
Once we’re back at the room, excuse yourself to the restroom to wash your hand and freshen up. If you haven’t had a moment to shower before our date, you are welcome to take this opportunity to do so.
Lengthy email discussions are considered impertinent. Let’s save the witty back and forth for a Niteflirt call or an in person date.
Gifts
While gifts are never expected or required, generosity will never go unappreciated. You can never go wrong by getting me something off my wishlist.
Privacy
Protecting my clients’ sensitive information is of the utmost importance to me. All of my email discourse takes place over Proton Mail, a securely encrypted email platform. I HIGHLY recommend using a Proton Mail account to ensure your half of the conversation remains encrypted as well. My booking form is encrypted. I do not retain copies of photo IDs on any device once I have used them to verify your identity.
Getting to know each other before a date
If you’re feeling unsure about booking me and want to make sure we’re a good fit or you have specific questions you’d like answered that are perhaps not discreet enough for email, I take calls on Niteflirt. You may email me directly to schedule a call.
Do you people of [X] gender, race, physical ability, etc??
I see clients of all genders, races, sexualities, body types, experience levels, disability statuses. Please let me know if you have access needs and I’ll do my best to accommodate.
I'm interested in kink, but I'm nervous. Do you see newbies?
Introducing people to the vast and varied world of kink is one of my absolute favorite things. Kink is all about consent; I’ll introduce you to the lingo, we’ll talk about boundaries and safewords, and we can go slow. The beauty is in the discovery. You don’t have to be a hardcore pain slut to be a good playmate.
How do I make a good first impression?
Filling out my booking form in its entirety, promptly sending the deposit when requested, and showing up to the date right on time and freshly showered will earn you a gold star in my book. Gifts, while never expected, are always a thoughtful gesture.

